Que sera, sera.
Katie. 21. Harry Potter. Cats. EMT.

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I hate it. I hate change and I hate losing my normal comforts and what I know. The house finally sold so for the past month it has been non stop packing, saying goodbye to old memories and leaving who I am behind.

My mom tells me this is basically Oreos last chance. She doesn’t have much time.

Sasha is, at the very moment I’m typing this, dying in the back garden of my grandmas house. The vet is making a house call at 5 to end her pain.

My step dad has been out of town for the better part of the last 3 months so that is putting everything on my mom with the move.

My brother moved out and has completely disconnected himself from us and it really sucks because we need him to be present right now.

I’m in my last week of summer school so I have the stress of finals and final projects weighing on me.

My roommate and I are packing our house because the lease ends on Sunday so I have to do that with my studying.

I have absolutely no idea where my boyfriend and I stand right now. I’m 99% sure it’s over, and I’m okay with that, but our lack of communication isn’t helping the situation.


All at once, things are happening that I didn’t expect to happen. It all sucks.

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The reason women are turning you down for casual sex seems to be that, for one thing, a lot of you are calling them sluts afterward. Also, a lot of you aren’t bothering to try to be good in bed.
-Terri Conley, professor of psychology and women’s studies at the University of Michigan ( link )

(via 27-days-in)

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"I was an English teacher. The demands of the system required that I give out grades, but I never felt good about it. How do you grade someone’s writing? Writing is about revision. It’s about access to self. If a student writes a poem, and it’s the best they can do at the moment, how are you supposed to compare that to the student sitting next to them? How are you supposed to give one a 90, and one an 85?"
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"We’re getting divorced because we love each other, and we both realize that we don’t have enough of what the other needs. When we decided to get divorced, I wrote a note with all the things I loved about her, and gave it to her. She got very emotional and started crying. Then three days later, she wrote me a similar note. But here’s the thing—- she wrote it on the back of a recycled piece of paper. She wrote it on the back of an advertisement or something. So I called her out on it. And she said: ‘I knew you were going to bring that up. If you cared, you wouldn’t mind what it was written on.’ And I said: ‘Well, if you cared, you’d have gotten a fresh piece of paper.’"
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I don’t know how much longer Oreo has. I am going to absolutely fall apart when she dies. Dark times lie ahead.